Some Things Happen For A Reason, Others Don’t

Sometimes certain things happen for a reason. You worked hard to achieve them, you dedicated your whole life to that success, and fate finally smiled on you and helped you fulfill your dream. 

At the same time, some things do not happen because it is not the right time, the situation is not favorable or bad luck has intervened. It is curious how life always maintains a certain balance. Some things go as planned, and others do the exact opposite.

You hope for so much every day that sometimes you feel that nothing is moving, that you have nothing of what you want and that fate has forgotten about you. It’s time to look at things from a different perspective.

You are responsible for your life, and if you want something, act. Maybe fate and luck are sometimes on your side, but you, with your attitude and determination, play the most important role.

We invite you to reflect a little on this topic.

Things that happen for a reason

No doubt you were in this situation too: a colleague, a neighbor or a friend says that you are very lucky and that everything is going well for you. You answer that it is not about luck, but about your daily will and efforts. That’s because nothing happens without an explanation, and most of the time you’re the one driving things in a certain direction.

Good luck and bad luck

Is there luck and bad luck? In any case, a certain percentage is subject to the unpredictable, that small part that you cannot control or influence.

You cannot avoid contracting certain diseases or being involved in an accident. In addition, you cannot control the reactions or desires of others.

• Luck and bad luck exist, but in small doses that you have to understand and accept. But the other things in your life can be controlled.
• However, you are often unaware that you have the power to control or decide a particular path.
• Psychologists claim that there is a locus of internal and external control. People with an external control locus blame everything that happens to them on the fate or will of other people.
• They feel helpless when something bad happens or they fail, considering that it is the fault of certain external factors and never themselves.
• This is not a correct vision. These people need to develop internal control and learn to take responsibility for their own lives.

Only in this way can you learn from your mistakes and realize that there are many good things that happen for a reason, because you deserve it. 

Things that don’t happen for a reason

Every man wants to find happiness, but if he can’t? If there is an invisible, negative force that intervenes? Undoubtedly, unhappiness has some concrete origins that you need to be able to identify.

If something doesn’t happen, there’s always a reason. There may be  certain factors that you need to learn to deal with and give them a positive dimension.

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Fear is the root of unhappiness and the main reason why you miss the opportunity to have a good thing, which enriches your soul.

• Fear cuts your wings and prevents you from reacting. In addition, a person who is afraid of a certain thing passes it on to someone else. This is the external control locus we talked about above.

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• Each person felt indecisive on their skin. It is that fearful attitude that prevents you from acting or preventing certain situations.
• Little by little, your life becomes just a movie that you watch from behind a window and in which you will never be the protagonist.

If you have reached that point where you feel that nothing good is happening to you, that nothing is changing and will not change in the future, the time has come to take your heart in your teeth and set things in motion.  

The danger of waiting too long

When you wait too long for something, you can lose your dreams and hope. The train of your life will pass you by and you will realize that you have lost everything.

Happiness should not be expected as a sunrise, but should be created and felt. You have to give it a shape. Therefore, stop waiting.

Give up fears, uncertainties and move away from people who want to obey their will and “sit on your bench.” Being healthy means being constantly on the move, getting out of your routine and out of your comfort zone. Dare to turn your dreams into reality and believe that things happen for a reason!